Un amalgam de diete, cu offtopic si suete-11

Julie, e normal sa te simti asa, da gandeste-te ca vin si vremuri mai bune .
Eu efectiv ziceam in fiecare zi ca vreau sa redevin eu...nu ma puteam misca, nu puteam face ce voiam...simteam ca nu-mi mai apartin. Acuma l-as pune pe Andrei 2 zile in burtica si sa zac in pat
Julie, dupa aceea e greu ca apartii lui bb. Daca el nu vrea, nu dormi, trebuie sa il schimbi cand e nevoie, trebuie sa ii dai papa des, trebuie sa ii faci entertainment...eu deja nu mai concep viata gandindu-ma la o zi doar pentru mine. Si noi inainte eram din aia care zaceam si un weekend intreg in pat
Si vorba sotului, daca iesi 2 ore fara el, te simti si vinovat
Dar daca el e sanatos si fericit, se merita, zic eu. Acuma sincer nu prea ma mai simt in stare sa mai fac unul...

Ana, da, e fain MILF, e mai tineresc asa, dupa ce faci un copil, te simti bine daca te simti uneori si femeie, nu numai mama. Hai ca mergi super cu kg, de-abia astept sa iti schimbi tickerul!!!!

neata!

ana-s faine de tot exercitiile cu jillian.pe care le faci?
oricum o sa te modeleze peste tot.incepind de la brate si terminind cu fund si picioare.suuuper si bravo ca te tii de ele..
in vremurile mele de glorie, le faceam si eu si ce bine ma simteam...

cris, cam asa e cum descrii tu.cam asa ma simt ca nu-mi mai apartin si habar n-am ce-i cu perosoana aia pe care o vad in oglinda, cu burta mare, inceata etc.
oricum mi-e tare drag de ea cind o simt cum se misca si cind face cite un show..
dupa ce nasc, macar n-o sa mai fiu atita de inceata si o sa incerc sa redevin eu..
in fine, nici azi n-am o stare mai buna..ma duc s ama pregatesc de scoala ,ca-mi ia forever...
zi faina sa aveti!

Helloe, fetele mele dragi.
Acu` am picat si eu de totului racita. Aseara aveam 39 febra. Ma dor toate. Naspa de tot. De abia m-am mobilizat sa vin la calc.

Cred ca e vremea depresiilor de primavara ca observ ca e as ao stare generala.

Julie, te inteleg si eu perfect. E asa un amestec de sentimente in sufletul unei femei insarcinate si in al mamei de asemenea. Vorba lui Cris, uneori de abia astept 2 3 ore de pauza, de relaxare, de a fi in doi, apoi ma simt egoista, vinovata si mama denaturata. Dar cred ca asta e zbaterea eterna a femeii, pendularea intre a fi mama si femeie deplina.

Mai am cate ceva de pove, dar musai sa ies acuma ca ma dor ochii ingrozitor, de fapt ce anume nu ma doare acuma ?

Pup toata gasca.

Roxa, sanatate
Julie, e prea fain cand misca. Mie imi placea cand imi lipeam burtica de spatele lui Alex si ii cara picioare , eram topiti...
Fetelor, am pus poze pe fb de la motz, finally

buna seara fetelor

am fost si la interviu, nimic interesant...
cris am vazut pozele. andrei e frumoos fooc, imi vine sa-l mananc. iar tu esti slabaaa

Acu daca a tot manca porcarii ma simt grasa si vinovata
Sper sa nu se vada mult la cantar.
Noul obiectiv e 52 pana de Paste, dar inca nu am chef sa ma apuc iar

nu e cazul sa te simti grasa si nici vinovata, arati super

l.e.: week-end placut

andreea_2008 a scris:nu e cazul sa te simti grasa si nici vinovata, arati super

l.e.: week-end placut

In curs de ingrasare, sunt la a 3-a felie de tort pe ziua de azi
Imi vine sa intru in pamant.
Musafiri indisponibili azi, le-am zis pe maine sa nu-si faca sperante ca mai gasesc ceva....

seara buna!

cris, iar ai facut tort?de care, de data asta?
roxy, sanatate si incearca sa te odihnesti. cred ca asta -i cea mai buna metoda de a trata raceala.
ana, bravo ca te tii de dieta..esti o hot mama in devenire.
andrica, mai cauta si o sa gasesti ceva sa te multumeasca...curaj!

eu am venit de la doctor, anna are aproximativ 5.8 pounds adica vreo 2 kile jumate..
zi buna sa aveti!

Scris mesaj si pierdut, offff
Pe scurt, Julie, ma bucur ca sunteti bine amandoua, Ana ca e HSM in devenire, Handrico, bine ca ai mai multe optiuni prin Bucuresti si nu esti intr-un oras mic ca ar fi jale....
Fug...
Aaaaa, tortul e diplomat tigrat de pe blogul Amaliei

Hello
Andreea, stiu cum e. Am fost si eu pe acolo. Imi era groaza sa merg la serviciu, dar a trecut si sper sa fie din ce in ce mai bine.
Cris, am vazut pozili. Ioi frumos ii pruncul tau, iar tu esti MILF
Juli, Anna e mare. Pana la nastere mai pune un kg. Mai putin si o tii in brate si-apoi o sa vii si tu la HSM.

ana_bela a scris:Hello
Andreea, stiu cum e. Am fost si eu pe acolo. Imi era groaza sa merg la serviciu, dar a trecut si sper sa fie din ce in ce mai bine.
Cris, am vazut pozili. Ioi frumos ii pruncul tau, iar tu esti MILF
Juli, Anna e mare. Pana la nastere mai pune un kg. Mai putin si o tii in brate si-apoi o sa vii si tu la HSM.

Multumesc Ana
Parca nu ma mai vedeam odata slaba....

seara buna!

cris,si eu am vazut pozele,andrei e tare simpatic!!!
la mine cica e tensiunnea e mare.ieri cind mi-a luat-o , ma uitam la asistenta si vedeam cum isi ridica o spirnceana cind mi-a lauta-o prima data.)
mai merg sa mi-o ia luni si daca e iar mare, cica tre sa iau o pauza de lucru.cind le-am zis ca lucrez cu copii, au intles de ce e mare!)
sa speram ca luni e buna , ca nu vreau sa stau acasa!!!!!!!

ana, pin sa fiu ca voi, adica cu kile putine, mai ammmmm!!!!!

azi matteo,copilu' italian , se uita la mine de parca acuma mi-a descoperit burta si zice:"cristina what you have in your belly?(si o atinge) a rock?)
dupa el, o fetita ,maddie-you have a big belly today .when is your baby coming?you bring him to school?)
azi parca toti mi-au descoperit burta:))!

sa aveti o simbata faina!!!!

Cris o sa rupa multe inimi Andriciul tau...e frumusel foc...plus ca o sa fie destept cu masina si pc )
Iar tu chiar esti slaba,la ce vrei sa mai slabesti...dupa aia o sa intri in categoria "uscatelor" :D

Juli tare draguti sunt copilasii. Tare mi-ar placea sa te vad o zi la munca, ce si cum faci cu copiii, cum se desfasoara o zi din viata voastra.

Ana ce bine sa fii cu moralul sus, sa faci si sport si sa fii o sexy mama.
Exact aici as vrea sa aj si eu intre68-65.........dar ....
Oricum tu nu ai fost grasa inainte si poate e mai usor. Eu si inainte de sarcina tot 70 si dupa 75 . Ar fi un miracol sa am 69,9.

Roxi a mai trecut raceala?

Eu am o lipsa acuta de calciu, incat mi se exfoliaza pielea de pe maini, dar nu iau calciu de teama sa nu ma ingras mai mult...cu toate ca mi-ar trebui ceva minerale si calciu ca sunt ametita rau.

Wk frumos tuturor

Hello
Juli, ai mare grija cu tensiunea. In luna mare nu-i ok. Eu am avut pulsul foarte mare si nu mi-a fost bine deloc.
Weekend fain

L.E. Dana, iar nu-mi place ca ti-a disparut optimismul. Erai asa de pornita sa slabesti. hai, mai ca se poate!!!!!!! [Trebuie sa fiti înscris şi conectat pentru a vedea această imagine]


P.S. Am facut supa de linte. Acum savurez!

ziua buna ,fetelor!

dana, fii optimista si treci inapoi la dieta!daca vrei sa slabesti, sigur o sa slabesti!
despre copii, sinceri intotdeauna si mi-s tare dragi, chair daca imi urca tensiuneaadin cauza lor!
va pot pune poze pe yahoo cu ei in clasa, lucrind..asta de va intereseaza.

ana,sper sa fie ok tensiunea pe cind merg..pina acum a fost f buna, doar in ziua aia a urcat..adevarul e ca am si avut o zi nebuna, nebuna.

pofta buna la supa de linte!

weekend bun la toata lumea!

Buna fetelor, multumesc di complimenti
Deja sunt rupta de la atata treaba
Julie, si eu am avut tensiunea mica si mi-a recomandat sa mai beau cate o gura de cafea, dar intr-adevar, trebuie ceva sa fii mai atenta daca e tensiunea mare, asa stiu si eu.
Dana, are dreptate Ana, erai mai ok cu doza de optimism, e nasol sa te simti asa mereu. Poate e si ceva legat de niste lipsuri de ai starea asta, ceva naturist poate iti ridica starea de spirit.
Legat de categoria uscatelor , nu stiu sigur daca m-are deranja titulatura....am fost prea multa vreme in categoria "buna", "grasa si frumoasa", "voluptuoasa" ca sa ma mai deranjeze "scobitoare", "uscaciune" sau "batz" ...oricum eu am forme si big ass si ar fi greu sa fiu exagerat de scandura...
Ana, n-am mai facut supa de linte de un secol, tre sa trec iar la deeta :D si sa o fac
Julie, daca se agita copiii, inseamna ca ai burtica de burtica deja

Baga poze Julie
Eu ma duc sa ma spal, ca sunt un jeg ambulant dupa atata treaba
Weekend fain. Noi planificam o iesire fara kitzun ratzun, iupiiiii

cris, n-ai scapat de soacra?
ma uit acu dupa poze si o sa pun.

Cris, fain ca mai puteti iesi si fara bebic, sa va faceti un pic de cap.
Sa inteleg ca e inca soacra prin zona?
Juli, sper sa nu mai ai tensiunea mare. Nu-i face bine printesei si nici tie.

acuma pun pozele..unele nu-s f clare ,adica sint f luminoase, dar tot se poate vedea ce fac piticii.de aveti intrebari, raspund.

ana,doctorul mi-a zis ca e destul de normal sa urce tensiunea in ultima luna si ne-a dat si un nume,dar nu mai stiu ..sper totusi sa nu fie mare, luni. de citit nu vreau sa citesc ce presupune nici pt mine si nici pt piticoata. weekednul asta o sa stau calma, fara stress si sper din tot sufletul sa fie bine.

plec sa iau rame pt niste tablouri..sa aveti o seara faina!

avr_dana a scris:
Eu am o lipsa acuta de calciu, incat mi se exfoliaza pielea de pe maini, dar nu iau calciu de teama sa nu ma ingras mai mult...cu toate ca mi-ar trebui ceva minerale si calciu ca sunt ametita rau.

Daca ti se pare in regula, imi permit sa-ti dau un sfat . Incearca sa iei vitamina E, face minuni cu pielea!

pt cine intereseaza:http://montessorihomes.blogspot.com/
primul articol, despre "crizele din infancy"
da ,vad ca nu merge, mai incerc o data!

Much of what the adults in a Montessori environment (home or school) need to do for children, is related to the developmental crises of infancy. Dr Silvana Montanaro describes these crises in her book, Understanding the Human Being. She explains that if a child experiences complete resolution of each of these crises, then they should emerge from the period of infancy (the first three years of life) with a basic level of trust in the world, in themselves, and in their ability to function as competent and worthwhile participants of social life. </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span lang="EN-AU"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">The key for parents of young children is to know what the crises are, when they occur, the characteristics of each crisis and also, most importantly, how to adequately assist the child in moving through each stage, and on to their next phase of development. </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span lang="EN-AU"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">It is most important to understand that whilst we as adults may have a negative connotation attached to the word ‘crisis’, in the period of infancy, it presents a very positive opportunity for growth and development for the child, if supported in an appropriate manner. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Each crisis can also be viewed in terms of separation – which also holds negative connotations for the adult. Judi Orion, Montessori Infant teacher trainer, says that <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">“when we talk about separation and attachment , we see separation as a negative thing: we’re losing something. With attachment we see a positive thing: we are gaining something. When we talk about stages in separation and attachment, we have to accept that when a child needs to separate from something, it’s something they no longer need in order to grow. They’re going to attach to what they currently need for their continued growth.”</i></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in;"><span lang="EN-AU"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">The first separation that the child undertakes is a separation from the womb.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span lang="EN-AU"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">This is the crisis of birth. Although the womb is a perfect environment, it can only fulfil the needs of the child for a short period of time, and will then no longer be adequate for the developing needs. Birth is a physical separation from the mother. The baby, once separate from the mother, needs to establish an attachment to the outside world, which replaces the connection he had with his mother in utero. Initially the mother is a representation of the ‘world’ for the newborn baby. The infant attaches to the new world she finds herself in, via the mother, in her arms, and through the relationship developed during feeding. This first period of attachment is called the symbiotic period and lasts for the first 6 to 8 weeks after birth. It is a fundamentally critical time, psychologically speaking, for the infant’s development. If the child has a strong attachment to the mother in this period, and if the mother facilitates this attachment, then after 8 weeks or so, the baby will be ready to separate and attach to the world outside of the mother’s arms. The mother is a secure base, from which the baby can experience the wider world, which she now becomes more interested in. </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span lang="EN-AU"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">The mother can facilitate the resolution of the crisis of birth, and the subsequent attachment to the external mother, by creating a home environment in which their shared time in the initial weeks of life is protected and separate from the outside world. The role of the father, or other significant adult, is particularly important here, as they can act as a gatekeeper for the family and protect the fragile relationship that is being built between the newborn baby and the mother. The mother should be freely available to the infant during this time, and should respond promptly to any cries or signals of discomfort and need from her baby. The baby should not be handled unnecessarily, or passed around from person to person, but should be granted a period in which he can become accustomed to the new sensations of his body, skin and sense of touch. This is best achieved when a family makes a commitment to providing a close-knit and nurturing home environment that is almost cocoon-like in a way. The baby is not subjected to loud noises or bright lights and sensory stimulation is kept to a minimum. The period of symbiosis is over when the baby shows that he is ready for interaction with the world outside the mother’s arms. The infant becomes interested in noises and lights and is more alert. If the child develops a basic trust in the world in this first 6 to 8 weeks, they are really ready to turn outwards, separate and detach from the mother and go into this wider world. </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span lang="EN-AU"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">The next opportunity for separation is usually during the sensitive period for weaning. The crisis of weaning usually begins when the child shows signs of readiness for introduction to solid food. This is usually around 6 months of age. Some of the signs are the ability to sit upright, the eruption of teeth, and an intense interest in watching others eat, even to the point of trying to grab food off the mother’s plate. Bear in mind that the weaning does not refer to the end of breastfeeding, but rather, the start of solid food experiences. The process of weaning concludes when the child ceases to drink milk as their main source of nutrition, and takes a number of months or longer, with each child having a different set of circumstances and needs. Anne McNamara wrote in an article for the NAMTA journal that Montessori parents should “guard against being influenced by our society’s preoccupation with freeing the mother from the baby, instead of allowing the baby to free himself from the mother...Babies are interested in nursing beyond their nutritional dependence on breast milk. This is because breastfeeding has psychological and emotional as well as nutritional benefits....It is important to encourage the observations and intuitions of mothers to know what is best for their children. Mothers need to be supported in letting their babies determine when and how long they need to nurse.”</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span lang="EN-AU"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">When introducing food to the baby we take a number of variables into account: the baby’s temperament, her needs, her desire to try new things, and her willingness to try new things. When the introduction of solid food has been gradual, respectful and matched to the child’s individual timetable, and if we are sensitive to their likes and dislikes, they will most often wean themselves from the breast, naturally. Judi Orion explains that we “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">are not imposing our will on the child, but it does mean that if nursing has become a way we nurture the child, we find another way of nurturing.</i>” </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span lang="EN-AU"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">The crisis of objectivisation is another period for separation and attachment, this time of a very physical nature, as the child begins to move. At first she crawls, and then she walks away from the mother, returning periodically for reassurance and validation. It is important for the mother at this point, to communicate our belief in the child’s abilities, through our body language, facial expressions and words. This is also the period in which the child develops object permanence – the understanding that even if you can’t see something, it still exists. The correlation between the development of object permanence and the beginning of movement is striking, as the child who understands that their mother still exists, and is still available to them when needed, is more likely to confidently move away from her to explore their surroundings. It is our desire to see the child move into the walking plane very secure and very confident that she is equipped with many skills and is a capable person. The child who is stifled by her mother, or who’s mother communicates a lack of confidence in her ability to explore the environment and move away from her, will move into this plane with a very different idea about her capabilities. </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span lang="EN-AU"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">At around 18 months of age, the child enters into the crisis of self-affirmation, sometimes called the crisis of opposition. The beginning of this period is marked by the use of the word “no”. This period is an ambivalent time for the child, who is leaving her infancy behind and moving towards childhood. She is torn between the drive to move forwards and become independent, and the desire to remain within the protective and nurturing circle that her mother provides. The child demonstrates her desire for self-affirmation through her activities and her language which are directed towards affirming herself as an individual. In the preceding period, particularly the symbiotic period, the child’s trust in the world is established. During the crisis of self-affirmation, the child’s trust in herself is established. This is when the child moves from believing that they are capable, to knowing that they can do things. She is no longer content with watching, she wants action, and most importantly she wants to be a collaborator. So we need to provide plenty of chances for her to do things, even if we think she might not be able to do them!</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span lang="EN-AU"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Silvana Montanaro advises parents that “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">behind the child’s ‘no’, is the desire to be recognised as a person who is already able to resolve many problems related to him...and to ask for his opinion much more often than is generally done</i>.” She stresses that she is “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">not suggesting that it should be left to children to decide what to do. The idea is to simply avoid giving only orders and to leave a choice between alternatives when it is possible. In this period what really counts is helping the child to verify the importance of his presence in the family. Real collaboration comes only from those who do not feel overpowered and can contribute freely. We are not risking anything by offering choices, while the child gains very much, because we demonstrate that we consider him able to choose and that we respect his judgement. “</i></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span lang="EN-AU"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">The end of this crisis is marked by the child’s use of the pronoun, “I”. This is the sign that he has really integrated himself as an autonomous human being. He understands that he is unique and not really a part of anyone else, but separate and individual. </span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span lang="EN-AU"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">“<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">By the age of three, the model for the human being that is developing within the child is complete. Crisis periods are favourable for change, not only in children, but in all who participate in them.”</i> – Understanding the Human Being, Silvana Montanaro

Julie, acusica imi gasesc timp sa citesc
Da, soacra e tot in zona, da nah, macar mai putem si noi sa ne relaxam nitze.
Aseara am fost la niste prieteni si am mancat iar porcarii, of.
Merg victorios pe un 54...
Tre sa ma mobilizez iara...